ESFJ Relationships Provider. Before a Relationship. ESFJs are visible community leaders. They have a great desire to foster social institutions, such the home. Aug 6, 2017. INTJ ISFJ Compatibility. The INTJ and ISFJ relationship have some good things going for it. The ISFJ can provide an emotional base for the INTJ who often goes about life avoiding feelings in general whereas the ISFJ can't help but show theirs. The ISFJ…